Updated: Nov 12, 2019
Are you a serial stalker, wasting hours a week or month, maybe a day, stalking others you know directly or indirectly ?
Is it work related, friends of friends related, or perhaps old, existing or new relationships and you’re curious about who they are now seeing or talking to ...?
What actually are you achieving
How is it making you feel
What is it holding you back from
How is it impacting your life
We live in a world of instant gratification and instant knowledge. Anything we want to know, we can.
Awesome 👏 however....there is also the ‘dark side of knowledge’ - that being, what festering impact is this having on us ?
Afterall, if we look hard enough, we will always find what we do not want.
Could it be stalking is holding your back from getting on with your own life, meeting or starting a new or existing relationship ?
Maybe you’re even seeing it impact your trust of others
You’re finding more and more times where you are feeling confused, frustrated, having more and more arguments and disconnecting from people who actually matter to you and for whom, you know, you actually matter or mattered, to them.
So the flip side of stalking could certainly be you discover something you intuitively felt and couldn’t pinpoint - now what....?
Do you run and accuse with new found knowledge
Do you run away and feel justified
Do you run toward and talk not stalk
If we look at what makes a trusting relationship, we always include the 7 C’s